Options and Methods for Resolution

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Mediation is a collaborative settlement process where a trained third party guides negotiations. With the assistance of the mediator, couples—whether they are divorcing or resolving parenting conflicts—can effectively settle their disputes on their own terms. Mediation services work exceptionally well for individuals who wish to reach a resolution but need some support along the way. The mediator's role is to help clarify the objectives and interests of each party and facilitate finding a solution that aligns with both sides' goals. Utilizing the mediator enhances communication, structures the discussion, and helps avoid an impasse that could derail progress. Once an agreement is reached, the attorney mediator can draft the settlement and submit it to the court, transforming it into an enforceable court order. I offer a complimentary family law consultation via Zoom for both parties to attend. During this session, you will have the opportunity to meet with me, learn about the mediation process, and ask any questions before deciding to proceed with mediation. Please email me to schedule a consultation, including the other person in your message so they can be part of the discussion, and we can arrange a session at your convenience!

The keystone of the Collaborative Process is that the parties, along with their attorneys, agree to resolve their issues without going to court, instead choosing to work together "collaboratively" to create solutions. Each party is accompanied by an attorney who provides guidance in the legal aspects of their agreements. These attorneys are experienced family law consultants, specially trained to promote cooperation over aggression in preparing for a court battle. Family law attorneys who actively engage in collaborative law understand from experience that their clients and their children benefit from resolutions they have developed together and in which they have a stake. The Collaborative Process may also involve coaches who can be invaluable in navigating the emotional challenges, including parenting differences, and may bring in child experts and financial consultants when necessary. This process emphasizes fairness and respectful problem-solving, which is crucial for parents looking to minimize the negative impacts of divorce and conflict on their children. Furthermore, mediation services can be integrated into the process to facilitate communication and resolution.

If you are working in mediation services, it is highly recommended that you collaborate with a consulting attorney. While the mediator can provide information, they cannot offer legal advice. There is significant value in discussing the issues in your family law case with a consulting attorney. When I work with you as a consulting attorney, I will give you legal advice tailored to your case, help you understand the pros and cons of possible options, assist you in strategizing, and review your written agreement. 

If you are managing most of your case independently but need assistance with a specific part, I can support you by providing legal advice on settlement proposals, drafting documents, conducting child support analysis, or preparing you for court appearances on your own behalf. 

Please call me to discuss how my family law consultation services can assist you.